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Writing Your Life Stories
by LeAnn R. Ralph
Remember the time that you got into 'big trouble' when you were a kid
because. . .?
Or what about the time that your little sister. . .?
Or how about the time that your mom was making. . .and burned the. .?
You probably have hundreds of these stories tucked away in your
memory. Perhaps you've even thought that someday you would like to write about them. There's only one problem. "I don't know where to
start — I wouldn't know what to write," you think to yourself.
One simple technique that will help you recall those stories and put
them into written form is called "clustering," which is featured in a book titled Writing the Natural Way by Gabriele Lusser Rico (copyright
1983; J.P. Tarcher, Inc.)
Whether you are aiming for publication or whether you just want to
write down your stories for your children and grandchildren isn't important. The technique will help you to recall your life stories.
Materials needed: several sheets of paper; a pen or a pencil.
- Find a comfortable place that's quiet where you can work for 15 to
30 minutes without being interrupted (kitchen table; desk in your office; easy chair in your living room).
- Think of a subject that is meaningful for you, such as Christmas,
Halloween, Thanksgiving, Valentine's Day, Fourth of July, Easter, New Year's Day. Other possibilities include birthdays, a beloved pet, a
best friend, an older brother or sister, a younger brother or sister, a cousin, grandmother, grandfather, your mom or dad, a neighbor who
was like a mother/father/grandmother/grandfather. Additional possibilities could include an enjoyable hobby, such as growing
flowers, vegetable gardening, baking cookies, baking cakes, making candy, or sewing.
- Write the subject that you have selected in the center of one of
the sheets of paper and then circle it.
- Draw a line with an arrow from your central word. Put it wherever
it feels "right" to you. Up or down. Left or right. At an angle. Fill in the point of the arrow. Filling in the arrow will give your brain a
few seconds to make the connection to the next word or phrase associated with your subject. The basis of the whole exercise is to
allow your left brain and right brain to work together (to coordinate the analytical and the creative).
- Draw another circle and write down the word or phrase inside the
circle that has popped into your mind.
- Repeat the steps of drawing arrows and circles and writing down the
words or phrases that come to mind.
- At some point in the exercise, you will suddenly think of an
introductory sentence and you will feel a STRONG urge to start writing. Do not ignore the urge. Take another sheet of paper and start
writing immediately. Do not try to edit what you are writing. Do not try to over-think what you are writing. Let yourself write what comes
to mind.
- Write for as long as the words keep coming.
- When you feel that you have nothing more to say on the subject, put
down your pen or pencil and relax for a few moments, then read what you have written. Whether it's one paragraph, a whole page, or several
pages — congratulations! You have just written the first of your life
stories!
- Set your story aside for an hour or two or even a day or two. When
you read it again, you may find that you have remembered more details that you would like to add. If so, go ahead and add them. If not, and
you are satisfied with the piece, that's fine, too.
This exercise can be repeated for virtually any subject. You can also
use it to help flesh out parts of your story to add more detail. Focus on a key word for a certain section of the story and see where the
clustering technique takes you.
©LeAnn R. Ralph 2003-2005
LeAnn R. Ralph is the author of the farm books "Christmas in Dairyland
(True Stories from a Wisconsin Farm" (trade paperback 2003); "Give Me a Home Where the Dairy Cows Roam" (trade paperback 2004); "Preserve
Your Family History (A Step-by-Step Guide for Interviewing Family Members and Writing Oral Histories" (e-book 2004). You are invited to
read sample chapters, order, books and to sign up for the free monthly newsletter, Rural Route 2 News --
http://ruralroute2.com
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